Cut him some slack really people listen and then if you must politely say no.
I'm not into calns sorry, I just have a friends list of people I play with and that is about it. sorry.
Get your website up and running and then post this at the bungie forums with some style in it. And have a few people in it so that it isn't just you.
"Do not die a coward, a villan, or a hero, die a servant who dies for others"
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