RonTom:may i add, (yes i read it all, damn, give me an hour of my life back plz), the best thing to do is to try them out, both, with the same game, at the same time. go to a toys'r'us or something, try it, feel in analyze it, ect.
i liked 360 much more than ps3, may i quote myself
360 is superior in graphics, ergonomics, community and online service. also, cheaper
all this based on my experience on both consoles, i usually dont pay attention to numbers (except prize, of course)
The PS3 and 360 arent level on graphics, actually the PS3 has a better graphics capability than the 360 because of its 8-cores and super gpu. The difference between the 360 and PS3 is that the 360 concentrates on high res textures to coat the models, while the PS3 uses a higher poly count to make actual 3-dimensional objects rather than textures that appear 3D.
The PS3 isnt better all around, but its a good system. The problems it really has isnt just its price, but its games. Right now, all PS3 games save for one are remakes, ports, or multiplatform. The only original game is Resistance, which was considered basic in terms of gameplay. The PS3 will catch up though, once the heavy hitters are released and the console drops in price. I honestly like the 360 better, but the PS3 isnt bad at all.

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